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Love!
Finding true love is an enigma for many people.
As I was talking to Jane, a client of mine this week,
about finding her true love, I realized that the contrast
in her life had helped her clarify what she really wanted
as a mate.
She had no problem giving me pages of details
on the perfect mate for her.
However, her question was:
How can I prevent choosing the wrong person?
How will I know he is the right guy?
She felt she couldn't trust herself.
I realized that her focus had been on
prevention of the next painful "error".
And everyone can understand that.
But in terms of creation, her attention was
set towards the problem and not the solution.
To find the right focus that would attract the love
she wanted in her life, I went back in my life at
a time I was doing visualization to meet my
husband. I was 17 at the time!
I realize now that I was guided naturally towards
the exact perfect visualization to attract Eric.
I remembered what I felt and thought, and it was very simple:
First, I used my logic and knew that there was
someone on this earth, among the billions of people
who was the perfect fit for me.
I also knew, instinctively, that I didn't want to get into
the physical details because they made me feel doubt
and fear. So instead I focused on what
was core to me: Feeling the love I felt for him.
Loving this person, loving every part of him.
If this person was alive, then it is logical that I could
already love him, so nothing had to prevent me from
feeling loved and loving him now. It felt so good.
Why wait :).
You see it had nothing to do with having someone loving
me and asking for something from him...it was all internal.
So, I realized that this was what was missing
when people visualized their loved ones.
It was all about the benefits and advantages they
would get from the relationship, the list was long,
but what was missing was how they wanted to feel.
When I asked Jane she was unable to bring forth
the feeling of love I was referring to.
She couldn't remember someone she had loved that way, she
couldn't relate to that level of love.
In a few words, Jane was hoping for being loved, but
was not offering the love she was asking for.
You attract what you are vibrating as.
Her focus had been to be loved, and avoid being
attracted to someone who couldn't love her.
You feel the vibration here?
Fear, doubt...
So, we did some Matrix Energetics, and we ended up
going back in time, several years in this
lifetime, but then we went to past lives, and
reached past life 9 where she gently fell on the
massage table and stayed there for 20 minutes.
During that time, I asked her:
What would it be like if you had known
all your life that you will find the perfect match for you, that
this person exists and that you will both love
each other deeply and unconditionally?
In this state you have access to the field of infinite possibilities
and billions of new bits of information are available.
It is the perfect state for change and creation.
When she "woke up" Jane told me that upon
reaching the 9th past life she heard and felt
"I love you, I love you..." so clearly and so powerfully,
she experienced the sense of pure love like she had never
experienced before.
She now knew what it feels like to love. When you
truly love, it feels so good, that you do not care
if you are loved in return. You have all that you need.
As homework I asked her to connect with this love
morning and night, thinking about the person she
loves truly and feeling the joy and deep satisfaction
of loving.
When you want to create love in your life, love first,
you will attract the same love you are able to
give.
(c) 2008 Colette Streicher. All rights reserved
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